Not sure if this is a rant, a question, a cry for help, or something... Entirely different.
Anyway. To start out with, I don't even know where to put this.
I now have a sort-of roommate. This roommate is an FTM. He'd be homeless if I hadn't taken him in, he was living in a Mission somewhere south of me (about 2 hour drive). He's pre-everything, and had had an abusive upbringing (not related to being an FTM, either). He 'lived in a box', has he puts it, and had to deal with two abusive sisters and... Uncaring parents.
Anyway, he has no GED, no Diploma, no drivers license, no job, and almost no belongings. On top of that is $40,000 in unpaid medical bills on his name. He's even in the hospital right now, but... this is another state, they have options to help him and not load him with debt.
I wasn't planning on adding him to my lease on my apartment, however... He also wasn't supposed to be here more than ~2 weeks. But he got sick, and right now is back in the hospital dealing with some kind of intestinal issue, and thus, him leaving with one of our 'friends' to drive her across the country fell apart (and now she's halfway there as it is, and they aren't even on speaking terms).
So, I need to add him to my lease sooner or later. I also have a friend kinda south right now, who is an MTF, and wants to live with me. And now she has a MTF roommate that will come along.
Which means, soonish, there will be two MTF's, an FTM, and me (MTN) living in a 3 bedroom apartment. Oh, I need to add that the three of them are HFA (High Functioning Autistic). While HFA doesn't BOTHER me, one trait that two of these three have is loud talking, which... I have a difficult time handling. And they're all hyper. Which... I also have difficulty with.
But, my Rent would drop to a realistic level, and i could pay off some of MY bills.
There's another facet of this, which... Is probably pointless to consider. I want a GF. I'm most likely not going to find one, ever. I posted a few times on CL looking for female friends to hang out with, but keep getting flakes, or TS. I'd be happy to hang out with (yet) more TS people, but living in a house full of HFA TS is kind of my limit. I don't think I could take the drama of adding ANOTHER one. >_< Just thinking about it makes me want to give up on it.
So, I have no idea what to do. I need to get my FTM friend added to my lease before we both get kicked out for it... But i have time for that. And I don't want to kick him out knowing he has nowhere to go, I'd rather give him the money to get his GED and License, let him find a job, and get his own place (but... He needs someone to help him figure out things in life).
Any ideas on what I should do, short of eloping with my Hello Kitty plushie to Canadia and never return?
