Back when I still had to shave my face on a regular basis I came to the conclusion that aftershaves were not a good plan for anyone wanting to have youngish looking skin as it all has alcohol or other drying agents that are clearly destructive to nice skin. It always leaves one dry and in the winter months promotes red, chapped skin. I switched to Clinique moisturizer several years ago, it's the way to go for nice youthful looking facial skin.
As far as scents go, I present androgyne and avoid scents altogether other than femme antiperspirants and any hair treatments. I leave the scents up to the really feminine girls, it's their domain and since I'm living on their perimeter, it's best to leave that to the women among us.