Hi Cyril ,
Another big Aussie welcome to Susan's family, for the Aussie Girls Mafia. It's good of you to drop in and say "Hi". Hope you like it here, and you stay for a while.
There is a mountain of information, resources and friendship waiting for you here, you just need to jump in and start talking.
As Cindy said, to get off to a good start, get along side of a good counselor who can sort some things out for you. A good one is worth his weight in gold.
Looking forward to hearing more of your story in time to come, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine