so I got my RM basic packer last night. I ordered the Caucasian soft one. with shipping/tax, it came to $100.
the color matches my inner arm/thigh perfectly, but wouldn't pass except at a distance. it is one color over the whole thing.
The size is comparable to the small Sailor soft pack. The shaft is slightly thinner, I think, and the texture is a bit odd, but not bad. The testicles are 3D and firm, but squishy. They are definitely firmer than the shaft. Depending on the harness type, they will fall between your legs when you lie down/sit with your legs parted. It does have some stretch, but nothing compared to Mr. Limpy. The material seems very sturdy and is slightly pull able, especially the folds of the scrotum. I don't think it is at risk for being decapitated by certain harnesses. I isn't sticky at all and it has yet to pick up any pubic hairs.
I am using a homemade harness that is an elastic band with elastic leg straps. it works fairly well, but does tend to ride up a bit. The positioning is a little more complicated (for me) as the flat part is large and I have some issues about where it should sit. I am guessing that lining up the center of the back of the shaft with the base of your clitoris would be pretty close. The packer seems to work best with the shaft pointed straight down, but it will point left/right if you have tight enough underwear. I wouldn't recommend loose boxers, but they'd work if you had heavy/tight pants. I also don't think that the RM would do well with the Rodeo packing harness. I've never used it, but I'd think you'd loose the felling of swinging testicles, because they definitely swing.
The bulge is slightly larger than the Sailor, but that may be due to the difference in position. I wore my Sailor in spandex women's briefs with the shaft in the concave part of my hip. I wear the RM straight down or slightly left. I think the 3D testicles are also a part of the bulge, but it is by no means obscene. I have yet to have the boner effect and it doesn't stick out the way the 3.5 inch Mr. Limpy does.
I have yet to do any fast movement/exercise with it, but I think it would be fine with the right harness. I have packed with it while sleeping and doing some cleaning chores in public. I didn't have more than one or two moments of "is it too high?" and it mostly stayed in position. I think it may move with more intense movement, though. Again, may be fixed by good harness.
I've seen several penises, and this is comparable, size wise and the angle that it falls at. I haven't ever felt one, but I think that this would pass the squeeze test. I wouldn't wear it through airport security though. Carry on, or check it.
I definitely plan to save up for the 4.5 inch prosthetic.
overall : 9/10
realness/size: 10/10
realness/color: 4/10
texture/firmness: 8/10
pictures to come later tonight, I promise