First-time packer & PO boxes

[Dax]

Well, it's been a while since I posted anything here. xD I have, however, lurked to a fair degree. Anyways, I have two...issues, so to speak.

Firstly, I was curious on what people would recommend for a first time packer. I've narrowed it down to two options, a small Sailor Soft Pack or a small Mr.Limpy. I'm partial to the Sailor, because of the firmer inner core and thus what's supposed to be a more realistic feel, but I also watched a review where it wasn't quite recommended for a first-time packer. I've also read and seen the shaft breaking from the balls, so what kind of harness to use is an issue as well, since a ring would speed that. The Mr.Limpy is cheaper but it's so stretchy and that turns me from it, as well as the Sailor having more colors. The softness of it might make it easier to pack though? I'm fairly tall and don't wear tight pants, so I figure I could manage either size-wise, though.

Secondly....as I'm not out to my parents, I bought a PO box at the school postal office, and intend to ship things there. However, I got a call already due to a binder I bought saying they don't ship to PO boxes (which is my bad, but I didn't see it saying so in shipping xP) . Does anyone know of any sites for either packers or binders that do?

[mangoslayer]

I have experience with the 3.5 mr limpy, 5 inch mr limpy, and the 4 inch sailor. My personal favorite is the sailor. Unless you wear tight underwear i wouldnt go with the 3.5 mr limpy because it will kinda look like a boner in loose pants. Also the 5 inch mr limpy is really long. It might actually be longer than 5" but im not positive.
My sailor hasn't broken the shaft from the balls. There's a couple small tears in it but they don't really cause a big deal. The balls flake a bit but i believe the mr limpy did that as well.
All in all I suggest the sailor.

[Dax]

Mangoslayer - Yeah, I was worried about the boner effect the 3.5 Mr. Limpy is said to cause, but I don't want anything too big, either. xD With the sailor, how long have you had it, and how much more wear do you think you'll get out of it?

[Wolf Man]

Personally I've had both the smaller Sailor and the 3.5 inch limpy.

From personal experience, the limpy feels far more realistic vs the sailor in terms of a flaccid penis. As for size, I feel like the sailor is more boner prone period, especially due to the inner core. The 3.5 limpy is only really boner prone in boxers.

Boxer briefs can take care of the issue or your type of harness can help too. Like a cock sock or jock strap would work better in boxers than say the DIY elastic harness. I use the DIY and so I stick with boxer briefs for both personal perference and security of my packer.

[Dax]

Wolf Man - I'm definitely more of a boxers person, but I wouldn't mind or care about switching if it really helps with the boner issues of a mr. limpy. As I've never felt some other dude's junk or either packer, I'm not sure about either's realism softness wise, so it's 1-1 there. Does the Sailor like...ride up, for lack of term, and then the core makes it poke more or something to that effect?

[Wolf Man]

Personally it was the size. It's too big for me to be comfortable with. I felt like the core was a factor with the length rather than by itself. The length would usually shift over and be in a pant leg and so I'd sit and the core would be the cause of a lack of squash and it'd look like I had a chubby.

If you have the money, your best bet is to get both. If you're confident in me not being a dirty person, I could just give you the sailor I used like 3-5 times... Not all day, just for a few hours each time. Then you'd be down to just getting a limpy and you can try 'em both.

[JayKyle]

I haven't used either of those two so I'm can't be much help there (I got a pack play which is just about as realistic as you can get) but I was going to mention you can make a homemade harness with just a simple pair of unwanted underwear and some scissors. Just cut the waist band off and throw rest of the fabric away (unless you want to keep it for somer reason o.O). Then cut a slit in the band horizontally just big enough to squeeze the shaft in and situate the packer in an appropriate spot on your body. voila! simple, cheap, and hey! maybe you can afford both now? anyways, just thought i'd throw that at ya since you mentioned something about a harness, hope i helps

[Wolf Man]

Totally going off topic to follow up on Jay's suggestion. How does that work? I tried it myself once and it would always just go back up and sit like a waist band. So I'd basically end up with my penis right under my belly. Just curious really since I couldn't figure it out. Maybe it'll help the next guy who considers doing it.

The two piece elastic band one makes sense since there's the one band pulling like this U and the other like this ∩ and the rest of it is like jock strap-ish so it's secure.

[JayKyle]

Totally going off topic to follow up on Jay's suggestion. How does that work? I tried it myself once and it would always just go back up and sit like a waist band. So I'd basically end up with my penis right under my belly. Just curious really since I couldn't figure it out. Maybe it'll help the next guy who considers doing it.

The two piece elastic band one makes sense since there's the one band pulling like this U and the other like this ∩ and the rest of it is like jock strap-ish so it's secure.

huh...i never had that happen to me...was it a really thin waistband? (i used a thicker boxer waistband) and did you have the packer sitting too high to begin with? that would greatly effect it. also, if you still sasha a little, i've heard that can make the band shimy up your sides. idk, maybe it just doesn't work for everyone lol, but hey, i think its worth a shot if it potential could, cause its cheaply effective!

[Dax]

Wolf Man - Yeah, I think I might just try both, and see what happens. See what I end up liking more. As for using your Sailor, I'd have to think about that one. I suppose as long as I could disinfect it it would be a viable option if you're sure you want to give it away but yeah, I'll get back to you when I've read up on disinfecting (they melt I've heard?). No offence to you meant by that, btw. It's just me there. -rambleramble-

JayKyle - Thanks! I've definitely got some waistbands I could put to use, and I'll experiment with that idea. Thick ones might be harder to come by, but even if I needed to buy an elastic or something it would be far cheaper than a bought harness.

[anibioman]

I've used the 3.5" limpy the 4" sailor the 5" sailor. i like all of them the limpy is most durable it doesn't look like a boner unless you pack wrong. You also can find the limpy in white people and tan people colors. The sailor feels realer but not by to much so unless you regularly get groped i dont think thats an issue. the sailor is easier to hang straight down the limpy is best directed to the side. also i use a harness made from two pieces of cheap clear elastic.

[Dax]

Thanks for the tips guys! I'm definitely going to try and diy a harness first and/or try out a jockstrap, though I think I'll go all in and try both packers.

[Wolf Man]

Cool beans dude. Hoepfully that all works out for you.

Also, I thought I'd note that I should be getting the MASHO packer from Queen Cat Adult Toys tomorrow or the next day. It's basically like the limpy, but it has 3D balls and doesn't come in as nice colors. I got the regular (firmness, not size; it only comes in a 4 inch size), so if you're interested in that one I can give you a personal opinion with comparison to the two you're considering.

[Dax]

Hmmm...I do like the masho, color aside. Any thoughts you have on it would be greatly appreciated, that's for certain. The fact the balls aren't flat really appeals, even if the color wouldn't work out. xP

[Wolf Man]

It seems pretty awesome so far. I'm not a fan of the longer length, but it's not bad. If I don't shift it too far to the side, then it'll be fine and not going into a pant leg. So I usually shift it a bit or just go with it right down the middle. I went with the regular firmness and it seems a bit softer than the limpy, but not excessively. No boner action with either boxers or boxer briefs. It sits with the shaft pointing down and not out.

I say you go with this one. That's just my opinion though. I'm happy to be without the issue of it flipping because I had big, flat backed balls whose edges would catch on my boxer briefs.

[Dax]

Thanks for the input. The masho is appealing more and more.

[Felix]

I've bought equipment from a website called Edenfantasys, and they said they couldn't ship to PO boxes and I submitted the order anyway and they shipped it to my PO Box. Also I don't know about your school but USPS has a service where you can use an address that looks like a normal street address but still gets routed to your box. UPS and Fedex might have something similar. Last time I looked into it I found it confusing though.