Ts drifting !!!

[lolli]

I cannot think of a good title so that is what I listed.

I know that we strive to attain as near woman like as possible with the sicence avialable to us, but I have noticed that once we do complete each and every goal we set ourselfs to reach we start to drift off.

But I have noticed that once we become the full me/us, and have attained the knowlege we require we then drift off scene into the lives we have ekked out for ourselfs in public to be heard of no more.
maybe there is an invisable bridge we cross at that point.

A pondering thought

[Debbie_Anne]

We all change, TS people more so that others.  People drifting away from "the community" is really not all that much different than how we tend to drift away from other people and places in our lives.  In some cases, it is intentional, yet for others it is more of a gradual drift, as we get further into discovering ourselves, we may find that we have less in common with others in the community.  Change is a constant in life, and as we go from one change to the next, often we are in a much different place and are much different people than when we started making these changes.

[Seshatneferw]

At least in part it is also that we are currently involved in a major disruption, where a peer group helps tremendously. Once that is over, the motivation is much smaller.

Partly, of course, it's also just change. Finishing this is a transition in more than just the obvious way, and there is -- or so I assume -- a strong temptation to just go on. That happens in other contexts, too: for instance, I rarely see the old friends from my time at school or the military.

  Nfr

[Butterfly]

This is quite normal.  We long for that life for so long that when we attain it, we rejoice in it.