I have a friend, or as it appears now had a friend, with whom I spent many hours talking on the phone and in person before her surgery. We're talking run the battery down on your cell phone type of hours. And I don't mean chatting about the weather, I mean talking about how her ex-wife had said something nasty that made her cry, how she lost a business with a low six figure income, life in general, etc. Since her surgery over a year ago, I've talked to her once right after she returned and I saw her last fall for a few seconds but it was as if she couldn't get away from me fast enough. The last couple of times that I've tried to call her, she hasn't answered her phone (she doesn't work) and after I leave a message, it's her partner that calls me back. About three weeks ago, I called her to let her know some very important information and same thing, her partner returned the call. However this time, there were some things her partner said while we were talking that made me think that she really didn't want to talk to me, that she is cutting off all contact with anyone she knew in the past.
Now I understand the desire in people to go stealth in their lives after surgery but isn't refusing to even talk to someone on the phone going a little far? It kind of makes me feel like the wrapper on a quarter pounder. After you get all the goody out of it, you just wad it up and throw it in the trash.
A very disappointed,
Beverly