Like everyone else, your case is unique.
I would say there is a lot more personal exploring you can do, than just cross dressing.
I have found that "bitch work" is very helpful to begin sorting things out. Yeah, cooking and cleaning the house, that kind of thing. If you are alone sometime, try spending four or five hours cleaning one section of the house without making it look spotless. Your objective is to really feel, and to be a much better bitch than just any average bitch.
(And if you're really tall, you don't want to wear gigantic spikes, really).
-Jen