Well, surprise, surprise, once you have those 'intriguing' girl parts yourself, something tends to happen.
Someone said: "We always look for/want, what we do not have..."
It is something not that's fully appreciated in all this non-/pre-op <-> post-op chit-chat.
"What we cannot feel, we cannot understand..." and believe me... it is just like that.
Axélle
PS: as it turns out, girl-parts are no more intriguing than boy-parts, once you are the 'holder' of either one... QFT