Now I am going to follow my own words to guide me through the loss of a very dear friend of about 37 years. Colleen was her name, she passed away at the young age of 63 from the dreaded Cancer of the bones (incurable) after going into remission from Breast Cancer. We met in a ski club and I was very much in love with her before I met my wife also in the ski club. Colleen married has a girl and boy in their twenties, lived north of the Toronto & I didn't have the wheels to visit. Ski club reunions, cards, along comes the internet & emails around 2000 kept us more in immediate connection. Colleen was the glue via emails with friends that kept us together, busy raising her kids got others to locate a place & date to get together. Around the mid 2000's Colleen and her husband Gary hosted an annual get together at their home until 2 years ago. In late June out on a day trip, the way home was by their place, my wife & I decide to drop in & Gary informed us of the gravity of her set back. This past weekend I left a message about us going to visit. Got back from an outing, no return call, we thought Colleen must be in hospital. We went out that night & had a message when we got home that Gary thought Colleen may have 2 or 3 days left. Sunday night I found an obit she had passed Saturday night so Gary must have gotten called back to the hospital. We feel so fortunate that we got that last marvelous visit in with dynamic, fun loving, caring & courageous friend. I do believe in communication with the spirits of those who have crossed over & hope to have a connection (I have had little bits, signs of family that have passed over), that gives me some comfort going through this. We were hoping for a miracle because Colleen deserved one. I am sure a husband isn't as prepared for a wife to pass before him, and have to be there for Gary. I am honored to have Colleen in my life and she did herself proud. Posting here, my fb page & the ski club site, sharing in the social media fabric of our life has been good therapy for me today. Thanks my Beautiful humanity of friends here if you dropped in on this post.
Love
Jamie