I know how you feel about the way men talk about women & how uncomfortable it can be.
My last job was in a magazine warehouse & I hated thursdays as that was the day most of the porn mags would come in, many of the men would have a browse as they were packing, from time to time one would approach you to show some woman they'd found in a mag.
as they would show me the picture all I could think about would be the nice shoes or underwear she was wearing, some thursdays i'd go home really depressed.
It wasn't as if I could ignore the magazines I didn't like as whatever job I was doing that day I would be confronted with the cover pictures regardless of the men showing their latest find.
I never knew quite how to deal with it myself & would just nod & smile, if I came out with a comment to stop them suspecting me then i'd hate myself.
At least once i'd came out they respected me enough to stop showing me pictures & I was gratefull for that consideration