I wanna have a baby but I also want to get my manly body asap, what to do?

[Natkat]

I actually saw an article recently in the Asahi shinbun talking about trans sterilization. Looks like it will be a long time in Japan for trans rights to catch up. The crazy thing is that it is "hip" in the media to be trans here, but don't you dare actually try to get help if you aren't famous or looking for a career in show business as a show pony. It's really sad.

Yeah its kinda sad.
I would like to study more up on GLBT in Japan and also for asian in general. It seams its kinda upside down there in some ways which kinda can fool you to think its very accepting or ignorant but its just diffrent. ex. I belived Japan was extremly accepting for gay people because compared to where I live they have ALOT of gay movies, comics, and books as I seen, so I thought when they where so openminded in there media they would also be open in persons, so I chatted with a couple of japanese people due to my study and I most of them didnt answer me back, I had 2 japanese people who commented on my sexualety the rest just ignored it.

please check up on this when you are looking around for countrys, I heard a couple of people doing the same kind of mistakes who even movied to a country they thought where GLBT friendly but it turned out that it wasnt accepting but the cultur where just diffrent.

a classical exemple is many people say thailand must be a wonderfull country for transexuals since so many surgery happent there, but to get more into there culture you see that its very hard being transexual in thailand.

[dylanjakoby]

wanting to give birth in a natural way will not make you less of a man on the inside, alexis. but i don't see why you want to have a baby now, maybe this is something to talk over with a partner. you can adopt still, you can become a foster parent and see how that goes as well. i say just research into anything you want to do before doing it. best of luck to you mate.

[Biscuit_Stix]

I had a surprise pregnancy and survived Which I'm actually very glad for. I now have an awesome kid, and I'm starting up counseling... again. But again, the kid was worth the trouble. I never wanted children, and definitely none so soon, but every day I get to see his smiling chubby cheeks, it makes it all worthwhile. I will warn though, my hips never recovered. I got pubic symphysis disorder (PSD), where your ligaments weaken too much and your joints shift very, very painfully. I still have trouble walking, but I just shrug it off as my 'thug limp'. It's rare, but it can happen. As far as other marks? Being young, my stretch marks virtually disappeared. Well, mostly. I used to weigh 250, now I'm 160, so I've got residual stretch marks all over anyway, so not a real give away. And a c-section scar can always be played off as some other surgery. A really badly blown appendix, a ruptured spleen, I donno. Get creative. Regardless, it can be done. You just have to put your other needs on hold for a while, and be prepared for some hardship, but that's the price to pay for kids Like I said, after the kiddo was born I never regretted a moment of the wait, or even my perpetual limp. And this is coming from a guy who still hates kids (just not my own). So, you can absolutely do it.