hello, everyone
First to give you some background, I'm a bi-sexual female who started a relationship 8 months ago. After 7 months of dating, my (girlfriend) told me, he's actually a male stuck in a female body. we decided to stay together. i was the only one he has ever told.
together we slowly started telling people, everyone except the people at his work know now.
my SO has not started hormone therapy, or anything yet, but lately i have just been feeling like everything i do is wrong. i slip up and stay the wrong things like using she at home, or he at his work because he doesnt want them to know yet. when he first told me we had a long talk about what was ok and what wasnt ok, and i find my self slipping up alot and going back to doing the things i thought were ok before he told me. it causes us to fight alot. i fell so bad for making him feel uncomfortable and doing things that we have said are no longer ok. it's taking me a long time to get use to everything. i just feel so useless even when im trying to help i feel like sometimes i just hurting.
i was just wondering if anyone had some suggestions, to make thing easier on the both of us? i would really like the advice!
thanks, lightningeyes