Doing what you want

[Dierdre Lenore]

Well, I've been seperated now from my wife since August and have a very good female friend, with whom i (we ) have not labeled our relationship really, but it stands on do what you want. Since then I have been dealing with Bert vs. Pansy and how they are to coexist inside with eachother. Amazingly it is not that difficult to find common ground. I know I wont / can't pass, and don't know if I care. I am currently regrowing a goatee and have gone out in public wherever I need to go dressed in whatever I want and no one has batted an eyelash. Could be my style, pretty Metal (leather jacket, bracelets etc) but that doesn't cover the denim skirt stretch pants or makeup. Either way, I am slowly finding myself and a balanced happiness that I never thought possible. Just thought I'd share, this place seems like the pace to do it. Thanx!
Pansy

[JulieC.]

Most people can be pretty accepting of who we want to be.  The fear we sometimes have of how others are going to react should never stop us from being ourselves.  Good for you.  I'm happy you're able express yourself.