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How Happy Are You to Be Transitioning/ Have Transitioned?

Started by UCBerkeleyPostop, November 18, 2012, 01:07:27 PM

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Miharu Barbie

I am stupid happy, thrilled to be the girly-girl of my dreams.  And it gets better and better with each passing year.  I look forward to being the crazy old woman, dressed inappropriately, with long pink hair, and still beating the crap out of the young men at the pool hall. 

It RULES to be me!

Miharu
FEAR IS NOT THE BOSS OF ME!!!


HRT:                         June 1998
Full Time For Good:     November 1998
Never Looking Back:  Now!
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Miranda Catherine

I was exposed to DES in the womb and thought I was a girl till four. I knew from the day I was told that I was in the wrong body, so to transition at 57 was the first time I've ever been happy. I'm fourteen months into living full time, and it's wonderful. From having a closet with nothing but cute women's clothes (I gave all my male stuff to the Salvation Army) to wearing my hair the way I want, wearing makeup daily, to men opening doors for me, I can't really point to anything I don't like about it except for the gigantic, tragic mistake of not finishing my first attempt at transitioning at 23. The best things to me though, are having complete strangers telling my mom and I how easy it is to see that I'm her daughter, our window and real shopping days, and finally, having a man I'm falling in love with, this journey has been everything I hoped and prayed for, and much, much more. 
These three years have been the best of my entire life
ones I've been able to live without lying
and the only time I've had since the age of twelve
I haven't constantly thought about dying



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Miranda Catherine

Quote from: Miharu Barbie on November 19, 2012, 02:48:18 PM
I am stupid happy, thrilled to be the girly-girl of my dreams.  And it gets better and better with each passing year.  I look forward to being the crazy old woman, dressed inappropriately, with long pink hair, and still beating the crap out of the young men at the pool hall. 

It RULES to be me!

Miharu
I have no doubt that it rules to be you. Your attitude is great!!!
These three years have been the best of my entire life
ones I've been able to live without lying
and the only time I've had since the age of twelve
I haven't constantly thought about dying



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Stephe

Being a girl rocks. Being a guy sucked. So yes I am VERY happy!
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Cindy

Had a psychiatrist appt today.

Do you have any regrets?

Yes!

What are they?

I didn't do it sooner.


Common reaction that.




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MadelineB

Life is really simple. Find one thing that really matters to you, and make it right. Then doing what you can, when you can, build on that one thing a life that truly fits.

My gender was my one right thing. When I stopped ignoring it and started living it, it became the foundation of a whole new, better life for me, and everything else started to fall into line or drop out of the picture.

I love my life more every day. Even the worst day is MINE.
History, despite its wrenching pain, cannot be unlived, but if faced with courage, need not be lived again.
~Maya Angelou

Personal Blog: Madeline's B-Hive
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AmyBee

Happy doesn't seem like a big enough word to encapsulate the glorious, frightening and affirming peaks and troughs of this bold new existence.

But sure, happy as a clam  ;D
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LizMarie

Quote from: Cindy James on November 20, 2012, 01:00:00 AM
Had a psychiatrist appt today.

Do you have any regrets?

Yes!

What are they?

I didn't do it sooner.


Common reaction that.


This!!

The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away.



~ Cara Elizabeth
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Ms. OBrien CVT


  
It does not take courage or bravery to change your gender.  It takes fear of living one more day in the wrong one.~me
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Snowpaw

Quote from: Cindy James on November 20, 2012, 01:00:00 AM
Had a psychiatrist appt today.

Do you have any regrets?

Yes!

What are they?

I didn't do it sooner.


Common reaction that.


Not a day goes by I don't think on this regret. T_T
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Noelle

It was a necessity. I couldnt live as male anymore, being female is all i would think about and i was depressed/suicidal everyday.

Now that I have transitioned i do feel slightly better, but am extremely dissatisfied with my hrt results. The dysphoria still remains, but I guess its not as bad as before transition.
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Lady Autumn

No spring nor summer beauty hath such grace, as I have seen in one autumnal face.
~John Donne~  :D
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Adabelle

I'm happy that I transitioned, but transitioning didn't make me happy. It just helped me to not be so unhappy all the time. Life feels more 'normal' to me now.

Transition only solved one problem, but life still has ups and downs. I still work at a stressful job, relationships are still messy, and in some ways my life is now more difficult.

All this being said I am happier in general, and I no longer live with the guilt of feeling like I was hiding who I truly was from people who matter a lot to me. I do, and have always wanted to just live my life as a woman - and that feels much more natural to me than before.

I too regret not being able to do it sooner, but I'm glad I have today and tomorrow to be me. I'm really grateful for that.
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Kadri

Ha... Last week I would have replied to this in a different way, but today I can finally say that I feel happy. After a whole year of going up and down and feeling like crap from taking androcur, I am down to half tablets in prep for SRS........in 19 days' time!!!!!

I was always happy enough from transitioning to have no regrets whatsoever about doing it, but for long periods of time life just didn't seem worth living. Today I finally felt myself again. I might not feel so good when there are tubes sticking out of me and I can't move, but I bet that I'll feel great this time next year. I'm going to buy a bikini in anticipation of the next Summer!
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Rebecca Perez

I honestly don't know if I would still be alive if I didn't. I put everything on the line and was willing to sacrifice everything and would do the same again just to live one day as the person I am. I love living as a woman.
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Jenny07

I am happier than a tornado in a trailer park about finally coming to terms with my true self but scared witless about everything else.
So long and thanks for all the fish
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