Hi Ark,
A big Aussie welcome to Susan's family. It's good of you to drop in and say "Hi". Hope you like it here, and you stay for a while.
There is a mountain of information, resources and friendship waiting for you here, you just need to jump in start talking and ask any question you like. You're quite safe here and we are very accepting.
Having said that, just try us out with one of your cataclysmic questions and see that the end of the world doesn't come. In a place yours, just try the first question that comes into your head. It's very easy and you'll be surprised at how normal you really are.
Looking forward to hearing more of your story in time to come, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine