Quote from: Sadie on November 30, 2012, 11:25:48 AM
Same here, my libido was not strong to start with and now its virtually gone. When I remember to actually try and masturbate I can't maintain an erection that could actually penetrate anything and to reach orgasm takes much longer. Also I get no fluid ejaculate and I have not experienced any of these "whole body" orgasms I hear some girls talk about. The actually orgasm is less powerful and not very fulfilling. Making the whole thing seem like a giant chore for little payoff. But I have tried to do it more often to see if increasing frequency makes it better as I want to be orgasmic if I can ever get bottom surgery. So far my efforts have not shown any gains.
Been on HRT 4 months now, before that Spiro for 7 mo., no ejaculate, hurts some to get it erect, looks like its bulging in the middle, getting more orgasm back, and "Morning Wood" is very, very, very rare now!
Quote from: Alainaluvsu on November 30, 2012, 11:02:55 AM
I posted back in January and things have changes since then. Now my erections are very soft. I never liked penetrating anything but I couldn't see myself able to do it even if I wanted. Also, my penis shrank over an inch since I started HRT. But HRT really hit me hard, so it may not be as dramatic to you as it was to me.
One of the "Nice Things" is I don't want to penetrate anything! As to intercourse with a Natal Female...No. It would probably hurt and make me feel very unhappy and dissatisfied. And that I feel good about! Mine has shrunk also, an Inch probably.
Quote from: MyAlias on November 30, 2012, 04:21:54 AM
Ok, so I have put off and have avoided getting on Hormones this whole year since I started this thread, due to I was scared of losing my function, I like sex with my girlfriend both oral and penetration. My function is very important to me. Anyways I can't stand not being on hormones any longer. I got my letter and have my endo appointment in January! I am still scared of losing function and I hope I don't lose it! I appreciate everyone who responded to this thread. Has anything changed for any of you since then? I also would love to hear from others. Thanks
Sincerely, your reasons for starting HRT are your own, and you are going to see an Endo, so you are going about this the better way. If HRT doesn't work for you, you will know within several months or less. You might be "pleasantly surprised" with what happens to you on HRT. Either way, don't be afraid.