So yeah, I left it in a baggy in the closet, dog found it while I was out and tore the bag and travelmate to shreds. I was gutted, specially since you can't buy them anymore. I hate the new style things that are more external... I liked the nice and intimate travelmate that was rocksolid 100% performance as well as never left one bit of moisture. So then I tried a medicine spoon - but the eyedropper type and cut the eyedropper to fit me anatomically.. and that also worked great, almost as good but less comfortable as the travelmate..
But now I've got a job where I'll be in the bush for multiple days with just men.. no bathrooms, just trees. So it's time to get something like the travelmate.. and hence my research led me to the pibella. I've never seen it mentioned on here once - though it appears to be all the rage in europe. Pretty similar to the travelmate in that it's more of an internal type fit then external. Will post up a review in a few days.