Hi Kit,
A big Aussie welcome to Susan's family. It's good of you to drop in and say "Hi". Hope you like it here, and you stay for a while.
There is a mountain of information, resources and friendship waiting for you here, you just need to jump in start talking and ask any question you like. You're quite safe here and we are very accepting.
Don't worry about not being understood here. Understanding is key essential, widely practiced here. However you perceive yourself is OK. After all, we are talking about you. And you are the most important person in that process. Hope you find much to learn about yourself, while you are here.
Looking forward to hearing more of your story in time to come, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine