In one of many attempts to "man up" to my father, I got a couple tattoos. Not just any tattoos, but giant ones that cover each shoulder enough that they come down below any short sleeve shirts. The one on the left shoulder could be considered either feminine or masculine. It's a dragon. It's the one on the right arm that concerns me. It's a giant American flag complete with an American Eagle and an inscription in memory of someone. It feels rather masculine to me, but I can't think of any way to do a coverup. I really don't want to have to cover the inscription because it really does have sentimental meaning for me. Any ideas?