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Can go well relationship of two introverts ?

Started by Medusa, January 23, 2013, 09:29:01 AM

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Medusa

Hi I want to ask to your opinion and experience.
Can go well relationship of two introverts ?
I met (online) a guy who look as I like (and I'm very choicy), we like similar things and we are booth very introvert and have problems with talking to people, this point could bring some difficulties to possible relationship, but as we now communicating via emails, we "talk" a lot
Question is can two people scared of other people be together? 
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blueconstancy

I don't see why not? Introvert doesn't have to mean "scared of other people" (that's more about being shy, really) and even if you both are, you could still like *some* rare people. Including each other. :)

My wife and I are both introverts; the first real compliment I paid her was "being with you is like being alone, only better." We'll have been married 13 years in June, and together for 18. I hope you're lucky enough to find someone as special as her!
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Medusa

As we are now talking, it looks we are almost like copies just he is a boy and I'm girl(?)
And I'm kind of scared, he just forget everything  ::)
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gennee

I'm an introvert. My wife is also. There are times that we talk for hours, and other times we hardly say anything. We've been married for 32 years. When I was young I was knocked for being quiet. I just didn't have anything to say.


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Tejas

More specific than your question, but thought I'd share anyway:
Just found out a few days ago that my ex and I are both INTJs (Introverted, Intuitive, Thinking, and Judging) based on the MBTI test. Explains the awkwardness between us at times, but still the best relationship I've been in. Awkward chemistry. Hahaha. Actually, none of my friends understood us.
"Sometimes you have to get knocked down lower than you have ever been to stand up taller than you ever were before.  Sometimes your eyes need to be washed by your tears so you can see the possibilities in front of you with a clearer vision again. Don't settle."
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Adam (birkin)

Quote from: Tejas on January 23, 2013, 11:27:18 AM
More specific than your question, but thought I'd share anyway:
Just found out a few days ago that my ex and I are both INTJs (Introverted, Intuitive, Thinking, and Judging) based on the MBTI test. Explains the awkwardness between us at times, but still the best relationship I've been in. Awkward chemistry. Hahaha. Actually, none of my friends understood us.

Oh gosh, lol, I am an INTJ and I have always wondered what it would be like to be with someone like myself. If it would be bliss, or hell. :P

Anyway, my ex was an introvert and we found it suited us quite well. We trusted each other. plus, when we went out we found we had similar energy levels so needed rest around the same times, moved at the same pace, and enjoyed a lot of the same activities.
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Tejas

Quote from: Caleb. on January 23, 2013, 01:53:44 PM
Oh gosh, lol, I am an INTJ and I have always wondered what it would be like to be with someone like myself. If it would be bliss, or hell. :P

Haha! It was both to be honest. But once you figure out the best way to communicate, it's pretty awesome (the good definitely outweighed the bad. 
For I and J, I scored lower so I think I'm a bit more expressive compared to her who scored high in all of them I think.
Here's a thread: http://intjforum.com/showthread.php?t=36053


"Sometimes you have to get knocked down lower than you have ever been to stand up taller than you ever were before.  Sometimes your eyes need to be washed by your tears so you can see the possibilities in front of you with a clearer vision again. Don't settle."
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Adam (birkin)

Quote from: Tejas on January 23, 2013, 02:03:24 PM
Here's a thread: http://intjforum.com/showthread.php?t=36053

Ooooh. ;D This looks like a thumping good read, haha (I needed a reason to say that, why I don't quite know). It's always weird yet oddly reassuring to read about people with similar idiosyncrasies.
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