If you live where there is a university, many have a GLBT office or organization. I contacted the director of the one in my town, although I am not attending school. She was extremely helpful. In fact, she directed me to a provider in my community who has a trans sibling! This obviously was not advertised and I would have never known nor found her without the referral from the GLBT office. It has made all the difference to find a provider who is so understanding. Good luck in your search!