The trait that bugs you most (one of yours that is)

[crazy at the coast]

I really hate it when I end up OWNING page 3....

I'm sorry that it didn't work out for you.   

[Lesley_Roberta]

I am unsure if I suffer from procrastination of lousy attention span.

I used to be quite aggressive about doing things, but, I think too much time with too much stress has eroded my capacity to focus and concentrate.

I'm often lucky if I get much of anything done some days. I plan for things to get done, but what good is a list if you can't remember you made it.

[Beth Andrea]

I'm sorry that it didn't work out for you.   

LOL! What devilry is this?!

 

*hugs*

[crazy at the coast]

LOL! What devilry is this?!

 

*hugs*

My devilishness is one trait that doesn't bug me.   

[Tejas]

I have moments now where I wonder if there's a chance I may have ADHD (without compulsion or rudeness). My brain just runs at an insanely high speed all the time.

[Embrace]

Behaviorally, my tendency to procrastinate.  I still can't figure out why I put off doing things I know will make me happy.  Maybe I'll do some of them tomorrow...

Physically, I miss many of the hairs which one occupied the top of my head. 

[Anna]

At the moment it has to be my own transphobia. 

[hazel]

Behaviorally, my tendency to procrastinate.  I still can't figure out why I put off doing things I know will make me happy.  Maybe I'll do some of them tomorrow...

Can't believe I forgot this, procrastination's going to ruin my life if I don't get it under control. I think I have my own figured out, I'm terrified of trying something and failing spectacularly, the longer I put it of the more the weight of the thing grows out of proportion, and the less time I have to do it in, until it feels impossible to even start.

[spacial]

Can't believe I forgot this, procrastination's going to ruin my life if I don't get it under control. I think I have my own figured out, I'm terrified of trying something and failing spectacularly, the longer I put it of the more the weight of the thing grows out of proportion, and the less time I have to do it in, until it feels impossible to even start.

I'm the same, but didn't get around to mentioning it.

[Kevin Peña]

At the moment it has to be my own transphobia.

Wait, what?! 

How can you be a transgender transphobe? Wait, are you transgender? 

[crazy at the coast]

Wait, what?! 

How can you be a transgender transphobe? Wait, are you transgender? 

A lot of trans people suffer from a type of internal transphobia, but for many its towards themselves, not others. While for some, its towards anyone that isn't just like them.

[Sam/Gabriel]

Wait, what?! 

How can you be a transgender transphobe? Wait, are you transgender? 

I suffered with that for a while. It's like internalized homophobia; you hate yourself for being different.

[Rachel]

Not being able to address my burning issues, just call me Nero ( actively working on it).


I coped with my self hatrid by being 100% oposite of who I am now. I am alligning everything in my life to my true self. Example, my primary care now is at a LGBT clinic, I am now a card carring ultra liberal and best of all I am a bi / trans and think that is a good thing. 12/12/12 was a monumantal day in my life and now I somehow think it may work out to be ok. On that day and the next 3 I had a breakdown and realized I was living a lie.

[Anna]

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Wait, what?! 

How can you be a transgender transphobe? Wait, are you transgender? 

I don't mean it like "I hate trans people" if that is what you are thinking .  I mean it more like reacting to out transpeople in a superficial & judgemental way which is stupid given what we have in common.  I spend my whole life trying not to look at myself and ignore that I have a male body, just about imagining sometimes that I could have beeen attractive if this had been caught in time, & then when I see a non-passing trans person they remind me of what I actually am and I think "Sh1t. I'm one of them." It makes me feel like an ass.

[Kevin Peña]

Well, no one thought you hated trans people. Phobias are fears, not hate. Anywho, I get your point.