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Started by Numinum, January 18, 2013, 05:12:49 AM

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Numinum

Hello everyone!

Feeling for some reason emboldened today I finally created an account, mostly to meet other trans* people so I don't feel too out of place at the moment. A quick sum up of my life so far...

My name is Lili and I was born male, though I have no desire to remain one.

When I was about seven or eight I used to play console games (Streets of Rage!) with my brother and always played the female characters, which I remember being asked about but not understanding at the time. I realised in my early teens this wasn't because I was attracted to females but because I was envious I wasn't one. I assumed it might have been an effect of puberty and tried to ignore it as much as possible.

I'm now 21 and didn't feel I could ignore it any more, so I told my parents and visited my GP, who referred me to a psychologist in Liverpool. The psychologist was incredibly friendly and said she'd been looking for information to help me for days, however the only NHS resource is called Abacus or something similar and hasn't opened locally yet.

To be totally honest I feel like patience in this case might be hollow as I don't even have an idea if it's opening soon or not, so I've been trying to find somewhere else to go that isn't too far away.

And now my hand has gone dead from writing this on a tiny phone screen so I'll stop. :)
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Ms. OBrien CVT

Hi Lili, :icon_wave:

Welcome to our little family. Over 9774 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.

Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.

But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another sister.

And be sure to check out these links ( MUST READS )


Janet 

  
It does not take courage or bravery to change your gender.  It takes fear of living one more day in the wrong one.~me
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Catherine Sarah

Hi Lili,

A big Aussie welcome to Susan's family. It's good of you to drop in and say "Hi". Hope you like it here, and you stay for a while.

There is a mountain of information, resources and friendship waiting for you here, you just need to jump in start talking and ask any question you like. You're quite safe here and we are very accepting.

Thank you for sharing a part of your life with us. Hope your journey picks up a bit of speed, so you don't become too frustrated.

Looking forward to hearing more of your story in time to come, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.

Lotsa huggs
Catherine




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Jamie D

Welcome, Lili.

You can show your psychologist the WPATH "Standards of Care," to begin with.

Glad you found us.
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Numinum

Thanks for all the friendly replies! I'm sure you all know how daunting it can be to begin with so it means a lot. :)

I'll try and call my GP and mention the WPATH SoC, since I'm not sure how else to show her - I'm not sure how computer proficient she is. ;D

I did feel a little disheartened after the psychologist visit, as she basically said she had no idea why I was referred there by my GP. Bit awkward, really! However (fingers crossed) educating my GP a little bit will go some way in helping.  :D

And of course I'll keep everyone updated! :)
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Devlyn

Hi Lili, welcome to Susan's Place! I live near Boston. Glad you found the site, hugs, Devlyn
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