Hello Xavier
Welcome, welcome. I think that you will find many answers to the questions you have here at Susan's. There are many members here, past and present who, like you, are or were confused about issues regarding their sexuality, and their gender. There is a wealth of information in the Wiki found here
https://www.susans.org/wiki/Main_Page. Be sure to browse through it as it is a good place to start. I don't think that anyone here would consider themselves as She-males, and I have yet to see anyone refer to themselves that way, so I wouldn't use that term unless a member here refers to them self as such.
Just remember one think to start with... wearing women's clothing does not make
you a woman, the same way that women's cloths do not make a woman. There are many reasons why you feel the way you do, so to narrow things down a little, review the information here first.
As I mentioned, there are many members here who experienced the same feelings you have so stick around, relax, and enjoy your stay

Chat later,
Steph