http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/magazine/atwork-advice-potty-clarity/2013/07/26/ef9eaed0-e59b-11e2-aef3-339619eab080_story.html@Work Advice: Transgender workers and 'gender-appropriate bathrooms'
By Karla L. Miller, Published: July 31
A longtime employee in our federal government office was "Bob" and now is "Barbara." When it was time for Barbara to start living as a woman, she spent a year using a designated unisex bathroom with only one toilet. After a year, she began using the women's multi-stall bathroom in preparation for her sex-change operation. She has also been taking estrogen and dressing as a female.
Another year has passed, and it does not appear she will be able to have the surgery. She doesn't have the funds, and it is not covered by insurance. How much time does she have to make the change before the agency can take the position that she is legally only a cross-dresser and have her use the gender-appropriate bathroom? We are at our wits' end.