Jealous of transitioning people?

[Kevin Peña]

I'm jealous of cis women AND trans women who have made further progress than me. I'm jealous of both of them since they get to be who they want to be, while I'm stuck being Manny McManface. 

I'm going to have to get bigger charts for my jealousy readings. 

[Heather]

I'm jealous of both of them since they get to be who they want to be, while I'm stuck being Manny McManface. 

You don't have to be that way forever! Your in total control of the woman you want to be! Make it your goal to be the woman other women want to be.

[peky]

When I see trans or cis people who are better looking than me, younger, richer, smarter, etc...

I feel happy for them...I remember all the dead, maim, miserable, ugly, sick, perverted people I seen in my life and........ I think..."good for this guys and gals who in my judgment seem to have something better than I do..."


So, no, no jealousy or envy at all.....then again I think..."perhaps there I something about me that these folks may covet..."

[Shannon1979]

Some yes. but hopefully not in a horrible way. not so much with transitioning people, that more gives me hope for myself. but cis women yes whenever i see a woman i like ( i identify as lesbian) two things go through my mind. one is the attraction and the other is a desperate desire to be her. I do have some jealousy of people transitioning who are not in puberty yet. i have nothing against them i just wish i was even possible back when i was 12-13. But alas it was not really accepted back then.

[crazy at the coast]

I will admit to being a little jealous of pretty cis-women and those with decent sized breasts. And sometimes, I do get a twinge of envy when I see that someone is going for srs. I think that is kind of normal for us and even people in general except where it comes to the surgery part, of course, lol.

[CybilB]

Later on, I became jealous of those girls who got to start before puberty. This envy continues to the present and beyond, and I will probably always have a little resentment in store for those lucky girls. I'm not really proud of that fact, but I believe it's a natural reaction.

This right here. I'm happy for the girls who learned about their identity before puberty, and had accepting parents to help them through the difficult path before them, but oh, how I envy them!

[FullThrottleMalehem]

I'm downright jealous of cis men since they were born in the right body, never have to worry about affording surgeries and hormone treatments. I am extremely envious possibly even jealous of trans men that pass really well, that can afford to have a really good top surgery done and especially of those who can pass without hormones and surgery and can make their voice a lower pitch. I guess I'm just jealous of people who can afford to be who they feel they are inside. I was born into an abusive poverty stricken home, forced to live in a town with no real job economy. Now I can't afford to move or transition due to finances and a complete lack of trans educated doctors. So as much as I don't like to be, I can't help but to have feelings of jealousy and extreme envy.

[King Malachite]

I'm downright jealous of cis men since they were born in the right body, never have to worry about affording surgeries and hormone treatments. I am extremely envious possibly even jealous of trans men that pass really well, that can afford to have a really good top surgery done and especially of those who can pass without hormones and surgery and can make their voice a lower pitch. I guess I'm just jealous of people who can afford to be who they feel they are inside. I was born into an abusive poverty stricken home, forced to live in a town with no real job economy. Now I can't afford to move or transition due to finances and a complete lack of trans educated doctors. So as much as I don't like to be, I can't help but to have feelings of jealousy and extreme envy.

I feel your pain.  A while back ago I made a thread called "Natural Features that work in your favor" and I sort of regret making that thread because a lot of the guys there had some type of natural feature that helped them in their transition such as height, deep voice, above average growth downstairs, no hips, large hands, etc. while I have everything nearly working against my favor.  To be honest, I don't think there's a transguy I'm NOT jealous of.

[Lesley_Roberta]

Right now, I am merely jealous of anyone with a nice waist.

I can't change my neck, but my waist is a reflection of lousy diet.

Wish I could unlock the secret to my own weight loss.

The day I get my original waist back, is likely the day I declare victory. Everything else will be easy in comparison.