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Ask Matt: Coming Out as a Public Figure

Started by Shana A, February 19, 2013, 07:48:11 AM

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Ask Matt: Coming Out as a Public Figure

February 18, 2013 by Matt Kailey

http://tranifesto.com/2013/02/18/ask-matt-coming-out-as-a-public-figure/

A reader writes: "My question concerns coming out. I am a trans guy in my early 40s. I started transitioning medically about a year ago, and have started to have all the usual changes (voice, build, hair, etc.).

"While I'm no Lana Wachowski, I am a public figure. What I mean is, I have published books and other things under my female name, and in the small universe of my particular expertise, I am fairly well-known. So I have accepted that 'stealth' will never be an option for me.

"I have now 'come out' to everyone I can think of whom I care about personally, including people in my profession. But I have avoided making a public statement or putting anything on the web because a) in spite of everything I am a very private person, and b) even if I did want to make a change to my web presence, I can't think of a simple, professional way to announce the change without making it into a big deal or draw unwanted attention.
"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." Oscar Wilde


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