You guys are making me worried that I am not doing something right!!! Dr. Bowers dilation kit and discharge instructions only go up to the 1 3/8ths inch dilator whom I have named Micky Mint. At 15 weeks now, I am down to having a date with Micky twice a day for 15 minutes from touch the V to pull out time. During the dilation, I am moving it in and out, and twisting it so the tip does a little bit of stretching, and more important, massaging the lining. I know where my prostate gland is, and doing a tip massage and rotation at that spot is a lot of FUN!! I keep my hips on a folded towel, and on insertion, raise my hips off the towel with my legs as I pass the dilator just inside the opening, this pulls the muscles in the vaginal floor out of the way until I am past the opening, and then the mild tightening when I put my hips back on the towel also gives a pleasant sensation. I may give Dr. B's office a call tomorrow and ask why no Orange one!! In the two followup calls I have had from her office though, I mentioned Micky and they never said a thing about anyone bigger.
I hate to say it, but a guy claiming a tool larger in diameter than 1.25, is either a dreamer or has a parasitic worm infection. Look up filariasis.