Being in between right now, at this point I miss daily activites. Since I am at a point where I can no longer take off my shirt without people raising an eyebrow, and since I am not "out" yet, things that require me to expose more than i can are out of the question. The beach, boating, pools, jacuzzi, etc. are things that are common in my Southern California lifestyle and I always have to come up with an excuse why I can't go whenever one of my friends invite me.
I can't wait until I am full time so I can go back to doing the things I love. I'm not going to let my transition stop me from doing them. I've always loved sports like snowboarding, skateboarding, wakeboarding, hiking, etc. and will continue to do those things after transition.
What I ask myself at this point in my journey is, "What am I missing from my new life?" The answer to that question is the honest to myself and others about who I really am and the ability to let my true self shine. Love for and by another, for I haven't ever felt what love is. I have been unable to be with anyone in my life, male or female, due to my self-inflicted hate and disgust with myself. Therefore, I have not been able to enjoy the little things like waking up next to someone and feeling close to another person. I "miss" the ability to say, do and feel as I truly do.