There is no real bulge; the joy comes in in reaching down there, feeling a dick, however small it may be, feeling balls, and best of all: NO HOLE!! I can pee through my dick. I could pass naked in a locker room. and THAT makes it all worthwhile to me.
Size, schmize. Yeah, I'd love a bigger dick but A dick is better than NO dick (for me). 1000% improvement in my overall sense of wellbeing. I feel whole. Finally.
Jay