Yeah I agree, I think it has more to do with upbringing, where you have been your entire life, and how the brain has developed accordingly.
Skills and talents are learned. It takes time, practice, and diligence to become good at something. I think some people do innately have advantages genetically, not that it totally relates to gender in any biological sort of way. More just with how our brains are wired from the get-go and the role that social conditioning plays into the scenarios we've been thrown into over the history of our lives.
I think that for the most part we are all somewhat untapped when it comes to our true individual potentials. There is so much we can each do, it's just a matter of getting lucky enough to reach the realization and having the time it takes to actually "get there". We all choose our own future, and the people around us play a HUGE role in that shaping process 🙂