Really sad :(

[sony]

So, the person I'm in love with, the one I love the most had just shut her doors for me For the last 3 years we had a special relationship, she ofcourse knew about me, I opened completely to her (and I never did that to anyone). We were hanging out 2-3 times per week, talking every day over the phone for hours, made plans, laughed... One day I told her I love her... She said she doesn't feel the same, but she continued calling me every day, telling me she loves me, she wants to meet me, she would even get jealous and angry sometimes if I said I can't come down to you right now... I always wanted to make her happy so I spend my every single moment with her... I just wanted to describe our relationship for a bit... So, basically I kinda figured maybe she does love me, but she is scared of everything going on with me...But no... As it turns out, now she found a guy, she decided not to call me anymore, she doesn't want to see me or anything... She just left me and left everything we had Did she do that because of my problems? Am I not good enough? Did she just used me because she was lonely and bored and now she doesn't need me cause she found somebody? So sad right now

[AdamMLP]

People have tastes and want different things from their friends and their partners sometimes, it doesn't mean that it's anything to do with being trans.  Cis people have that problem too, so don't get yourself down about it being because you're trans and he's not.

[cezcal20]

Keep your head up mate, im sure it was  nothing to do with you. Some people are just selfish.

[Simon]

It sounds like she used you to alleviate her boredom and she never thought of you as having relationship potential.

If she was a true friend after knowing each other that long she wouldn't have dropped you just like that. It's better to know sooner than later. I hate that she did that but now you know and can move on.

[anibioman]

It sounds like she used you to alleviate her boredom and she never thought of you as having relationship potential.

yeah sorry that happened to you. i agree with simon. it sucks that this happened to you and i hope it doesn't happen again. ive had something similar happen to me two years ago. i found a girl who likes me for me and doesn't care about me being trans.

[sony]

Thank you all for replying, Im trying not to think of her but it's really hard, especially because I don't have no one else that knows about me beings trans and actually I don't have a lot of friends. I just can't get her out of my mind and the way she left really hurts

[Beth Andrea]

Sending Bunnie and Teddy hugs...

*hugs*

[sony]

Thank you for your support Beth Andrea

[Contravene]

It doubt that it has anything to do with you being trans and I don't think she was just using you. It seems to me that she was hanging out with you so often because she did have some feelings for you and she was trying to find out exactly what kind of feelings they were. In the end, they just weren't strong enough for her to want to be in a relationship with you. Now she's probably acting as if she doesn't want to have anything to do with you because she's afraid that those feelings she had for you will come up again. She's also probably embarrassed because she knows she hurt you. You shouldn't feel too down on yourself about it, you'll be able to find someone who does have stronger feelings for you now.

[sony]

Well yeah, from the way she was acting all this years, I thought she does have feelings, but now she just find somebody else, I don't know how to feel about it.