I thought of that too. The problem is, I am a relatively reserved person. I don't tend to display my emotions to people I don't know. I work at a nursing home, so have to withhold feelings often, as many Alzheimer's patients tend to just spout out what they feel whether or not it will hurt your feelings. I've been told I have too much patience for people. So, if it was a test, I have failed. The anonymity of online posting kind of helps with expressing my feelings in type.
The good news is, one of my residents told me "You look like a girl" the other day. Since, I really don't, I chalked it up to her trying to get a rise out of me. It made me feel good, but I couldn't say "thank you" as I am not out at work, and transitioning at this job will be difficult as many of them wouldn't understand the changes going on. I am looking for another job.