To be fair, cis guys have to deal with wetness as well. They have to get lubed up before jizzing or else they'll burn their urethra (biology, yo). Anyway, I've found that being on T has somewhat made the function more active. But I really don't mind it because it smells a lot more masculine... like, to the point where it's hard to differentiate between my scent and my boyfriend's. So, if it bothers you that much, maybe think about it in the sense that you will be closer to being a guy because of the scent and pheromones. I don't mean you have to embrace it if it bothers you so much, but shifting your thoughts can be helpful.