Hi girls. Hope you don't mind a FTM posting here but I need some help.
So, I'm a gay FTM who is looking to get an IUD to use as protection with a condom for sex with cis-gendered males.
I had my first ever gyno appointment scheduled for last week to get an exam and then the IUD. It went horribly!
There no way she was gonna be able to insert an IUD due to being WAY too tight down there. Not only that, but she was also not able to do a pap or even a simple pelvic exam!
When she inserted the spectrum it was like I was being stabbed all the way into my stomach!
As of right now I'm a complete "vagina virgin". Meaning nothing has ever been in there EVER; no penis, sex toys, fingers (mine or his), or even a tampon. I really need to shall we say "loosen up". I'm hoping to do that with a dilator set and then work up to a sex toy.
I have scheduled two more appointments for an exam and insertion. In two weeks and three weeks (in case there's still a problem with the two week appointment). I was hoping you girls could give me a good recommendation for a good dilator set? Also, can you please tell me what's the best way to use the dilators and for how long everyday? Anything else I should or shouldn't do with a dilator? Thanks!
