So this is sort of a continuation of this topic.
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,137355.0.htmlAnyways last week I had my HR rep contact company HR about me and they basically just said to do my thing when I come out at work and if anyone harasses me to notify my manager. She told me I needed to have a sit down talk with my manager so he would know whats going on and this freaked me out because he is very conservative and scary
I literally couldn't sleep for days and I felt terrible and didn't know why. I wasn't worried about it but I think it might of been one of those repressed back of the mind worries. I couldn't stand not sleeping so yesterday I basically said "F it" and went into his office and told him everything trying to be as confident as possible even though I thought I was going to pee my panties
My worst fears turned out to be again...just in my head. He was very respectful and nice about it. He told me that he understands that this wasn't some overnight decision and that I have been struggling with this for a while. He said he'd make sure no one harasses me both employees and customers. He told me I was a fantastic employee and hard working employee (compliments like these are rare from him) and that he would do whatever he needs to help make me comfortable including time off for surgeries, etc. if needed. He asked me what sort of things I consider harassment so he knows what to look out for and notify our managers so they know. He seemed very genuine about all of it. So far my company continues to reinforce my positive feelings about it.
Anyways I left the office feeling great and last night I had the best night sleep in months!
