Susan's Place Logo

News:

Please be sure to review The Site terms of service, and rules to live by

Main Menu

Making the world a better place

Started by KelKel, March 22, 2013, 11:01:52 PM

Previous topic - Next topic

0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.

KelKel

"You never change things by fighting the existing reality.To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete."
― Richard Buckminster Fuller

This is one of my all time favorite quotes.  And it goes hand in hand with the famous bumper sticker sentiment,  *be the change you wish to see in the world ".

I am not one who likes to protest.  I am not one who will openly cry discrimination.  I am not one to demand anything from anyone.  I am, however, one who would do everything in my power to make the world a better place than what I found it as.  It has been my experience that you can't really force someone to change their mind on something.  You may have won a victory in actions,  but you have lost in that every time that action is performed,  you are resented for forcing it.  I would rather spend my energy on doing what I actually CAN  do to make things better.

With that said,  what are you actually doing to make the world a better place? Are you volunteering at a homeless shelter? Are you participating in river cleanups? Do you lead a boy scout troop? Feel free to brag a little on yourself.  I know you don't do this for recognition but rather for the good that is being accomplished. And let me just add that nothing casts you in a better light than being a force of positive change rather than an empty voice demanding something without making any effort to change it yourself.
"I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something; and because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do something that I can do." - Helen Keller
  •  

Ms. OBrien CVT

I volunteer with a non-profit organization called PAWS.  We help the homeless and low income people and their pets.  It does help the Portland area pet population.

  
It does not take courage or bravery to change your gender.  It takes fear of living one more day in the wrong one.~me
  •  

Shantel

Until recently I volunteered at a local AIDS hospice escorting patients to their medical appointments. Finally it became too depressing and I had to call it quits. Originally I had been doing physical upgrades to their building and met a woman dying of AIDS from a transfusion following the birth of her third child. Previously I was not the least bit concerned about such things, so I asked this little woman what she did all day and her response was that there were no games or anything to occupy their time and that she was just waiting to die. I went home and couldn't get to sleep that night, I got up and went to a store that was open late and bought several different games and left them in a bag on the counter at the hospice. The next day the woman said that some nice person had left some games and would I play Yahtzee with her? I said of course sweetheart, I visited her often until she died and stayed on as a volunteer in honor of her memory.
  •  

Jamiep

I used to volunteer for in a recreational program at the Crippled Children's Center in Toronto. For about 5 years I also was a ski guide for partial to totally blind people in a recreational program run by the Canadian Institute for the Blind, the group was named the Ski Hawks. Also did volunteer work in the social program for several years (was Social Director for one year) and helped sell ski packages to Whistler, Canada at our long trips booth at general meetings in a ski club I belonged to. Met my wife there. The first two programs listed, was just so pleased to see the excitement from people when providing them the chance to fly in freedom (especially the ski program).

Shan, what a Beautiful heart you have, and a bitter sweet story about the lady dieing of Aids. Reminds me of the Crippled Children, we had an active 16 year old girl that helped us a lot when pushing kids in wheel chairs on outings, she was Asthmatic, unfortunately had a severe attack & couldn't get ambulanced to the hospital fast enough, she passed. It was unexpected, a Beautiful lady that deserved better. Ripped our hearts out.

Humble servant.
Jamie
We are made of star stuff - Carl Sagan
Express Yourself
Own your zone
  •  

Sara Thomas

I donate pretty regularly to various charities and/or causes... no favorites - just whatever catches my eye.
I ain't scared... I just don't want to mess up my hair.
  •  

Keira

#5
Sometimes I donate to charities...but most of the time I try to be empathetic and kind to most people. Although I feel like I've lost faith in humanity as a whole...I know there are others out there who are kind.

A Buddhist parable...

One morning, after he had finished his meditation, an old man opened his eyes and saw a scorpion floating helplessly in the water. As the scorpion was washed closer to the tree, the old man quickly stretched himself out on one of the long roots that branched out into the river and reached out to rescue the drowning creature. As soon as he touched it, the scorpion stung him. Instinctively the man withdrew his hand. A minute later, after he had regained his balance, he stretched himself out again on the roots to save the scorpion. This time the scorpion stung him so badly with its poisonous tail that his hand became swollen and bloody and his face contorted with pain.

At that moment, a passerby saw the old man stretched out on the roots struggling with the scorpion and shouted: "Hey, stupid old man, what's wrong with you? Only a fool would risk his life for the sake of an ugly, evil creature. Don't you know you could kill yourself trying to save that ungrateful scorpion?"

The old man turned his head. Looking into the stranger's eyes he said calmly, "My friend, just because it is the scorpion's nature to sting, that does not change my nature to save."

Sometimes I feel like the scorpion is the majority of the world...and I can't help but be the old man.

The biggest thing I have to contribute is my creative intelligence, in regard to philosophy and religion. I express ideas to change how people think. So far I haven't done anything major, but I plan on writing a book.
  •  

KelKel

Just to contribute to the discussion, I will share some of my passions  as well.  I have an extensive background in the construction industry.  My brother had a remodeling business as I was coming out of high school  and I worked with him. 10 years go by working for various companies as well as an attempt at my own company. I transition but remain in the field.  A couple years later,  I decide to follow my passion of working with animals and walked away from my 15 years of experience in construction.  With that said,  I have decided to put that experience to use in other ways. I began to work on the weekends with Habitat  for Humanity.  I was there every weekend and finally they made me a crew leader on the  Women's  Builds.  Then they made me a crew leader on the regular build (they only built one women's build a year) After a couple of years, they made me the house leader of the Women's Build. I loved the feeling of helping such deserving families. Over the course of the build,  you really get to know the people you are building the house for. They work right along beside you and it is wonderful. The problem is that with Habitat, they have 2 builds a year ;one in the spring and one in the fall.  It over the summer that I was searching for something to do with my time that I discovered a wild animal rescue that needed volunteers.  I thought it would be perfect to just do this over the summer and then go back to Habitat.  That didn't exactly work.  I fell in love with it.  I began splitting my week up and trying to do Both.  Habitat on Saturday and the wildlife rescue on Sunday.  However, the more I worked with the wildlife, the more I realized that this is where I was needed most.  I resigned from Habitat,  and took over the position of Facility Manager at the wildlife rescue.  I build all the cages and enclosures as well as any other projects around the center.  We are a fairly busy operation taking in over 1500 wild animals every year.  We then rehabilitate them and put them back into the wild.  We also do educational programs to help educate the public about how to peacefully coexist with wildlife.  Not only do I do the facility management,  I am also one of the state licensed wildlife rehabilitators on staff as well as one of the education ambassador handlers.  I take some of our raptors and  other ambassadors  to various programs and festivals trying to spread the word  about our organization and our message  which is coexistence with wildlife.  I have had to cut back my hours lately because of exhaustion but it was as high as 20 hours a week.  It is a lot of work but I would not trade it for anything.  Wildlife truly does not a voice except in those of us fighting for it.  And I will continue to fight for it.  It's just a part of who I am now.


"I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something; and because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do something that I can do." - Helen Keller
  •  

Shantel

Quote from: kkut on March 24, 2013, 12:04:24 AM
Thanks for sharing, you have a very blessed life and you're a blessing to others, it doesn't get any better than that...  :)

+1 on that!  :)
  •  

AnarchoChloe

#8
This is a topic near and dear to my heart. Thanks for bringing it up KelKel. I organize within my community in a variety of different ways and find them all enormously satisfying. I was very big into environmental and antiglobalization activism back at the turn of the century but through a series of unfortunate events left it behind to try to sort through some personal things. Ironically, nothing really began to be sorted out until I returned to organizing. It was through reengaging with the activist scene here in Portland that I was finally able to unpack a lot of my fear and shame and find the courage I needed to accept that I'm TG and begin the process of transition.

At the moment I'm involved in quite a few different projects in PDX. First and foremost is foreclosure resistance of illegally foreclosed homes. When the real estate markets collapsed during 2008-2009 due to malfeasance on the part of banks selling credit-default swaps and bundling high-risk mortgages into packages that made them look as though they were stable and steady investments, many homeowners who were struggling found that the company they had been making payments to no longer owned their mortgage and would not accept payment. Unable to work their way through the byzantine layers of documents to find who actually owned their debt, in a lot of cases the first notice the home owner had that they were in serious trouble is when they received foreclosure notices and the sheriff showed up to evict them. What's come out in the several years since then has been the collusion between banks robosigning foreclosure documents with the court, mixing up case and contract numbers, and not providing homeowners the required notifications of impending foreclosure so that they may contest it. The banks would then evict the families and either let the houses sit empty and dilapidated or sell the property to developers who would knock the house down and build high-rent condos and apartments (often financed by the same banks that evicted) that serve to price the working poor out of their own communities.

There are a number of different tactics that we're using to fight this. First has been through active resistance of evictions. The families that have decided to fight eviction coordinate with our group to maintain a round-the-clock vigil at these homes in the event that the sheriff comes. I'm actually sitting in a foreclosed home right now watching for police. If the sheriff comes we send out a call on a rapid response network to get as many defenders as possible to rally outside the homes and protest the eviction. The times we have had to do this have been powerful moments of community solidarity. Several hundred of your neighbors rallying outside your house at a moment's notice is an empowering feeling. The group I'm with is actively protecting 5 different homes in North Portland and a sister group in the East part of town has another 4. While this is going on, lawyers with our group are actively working with the Sheriff and a federal judge to find legal avenues to issue a moratorium on evictions for the county, along the lines of what has happened in Atlanta and Minneapolis. The most important work we're doing, though, is the actual door-to-door work of talking to neighbors and fostering a sense of community resistance. We create events for community members to come together and discuss how empty homes depreciate their own home values, how gentrification divides neighborhoods and drives out the less affluent, and we try to get residents to feel more of a personal stake in how their neighborhoods will evolve and choose the direction they would like to see them grow in. One of the things we've heard again and again is that food independence should be a bigger part of neighborhood living so this Spring we're partnering with some urban farming cooperatives to open up more shared garden space and offer workshops and advice for those who are getting into gardening for the first time.

My other major interest is environmental conservation and addressing climate change. How that looks in my city is manyfold. The former mayor pushed a bill through city council last fall on his way out to add flouride chemicals to our water supply (one of the cleanest and most pure aquifers still existing), unsurprisingly the mayor now works for the industry consulting firm that pushed the measure and stands to profit handsomely from the fluoridation, and we had a massive signature drive in September to require that measure to come to a public vote this Spring. So we're rallying to get people to vote against the measure, just as they have the 3 other times this has come up in the past. Additionally, I work with a group that is trying to block the sale of our water supply to Nestle for bottling. While Nestle stands to profit quite a bit from this, the city and its residents would see no benefits from commodifying a resource that should be freely accessible to all. We're also rallying to block the expansion of a new bridge between Vancouver and Portland because it would expand the amount of cars coming into the city when the city's own green plan calls for a marked decrease in projects like this in favor of promoting more sustainable mass transit and bike options. I also coordinate with a group of environmentalists to block logging on federal lands and state parks so that future generations will have at least some idea of the vast richness of biodiversity that the Northwest is rightfully renowned for.

Those are the big two, but I'm also heavily involved in anti-oppression organizing against racist, sexist, homophobic and transphobic groups and people. I grew up in a very racist city with a large amount of Aryan Nation members and some of my earliest memories are of strangers spitting on my adopted sister because she came from a Korean family so I internalized the lesson at a very young age that hate speech needs to be fought against at every opportunity, that silence in the face of bigotry is tacit agreement with it, and that if we are to make the world a less hellish place then we need to actively call out oppressive behaviors when they occur. Oregon will have the chance to vote on marriage equality in the 2014 election and I'm excited to get involved in the push for legalizing gay marriage with my friend in the lavender caucus for the SEIU who is leading this campaign.

Wow. I just rambled a lot. Sorry, it's a topic I have a lot of passion about. I could go on for days so instead I'll just click Post.
"By seeking to free others we find the strength to free ourselves."
  •  

Jess42

I try to promote freethought in people that I talk to on a day to day basis. Not intimidatingly or forceful but on a very subtle level. Does it work? I really don't know.
  •  

AnarchoChloe

Quote from: kkut on March 24, 2013, 12:19:56 PM
AC, I have no problem with folks organizing to support their cause whether I agree with it or not. But I will always condemn putting strains on law enforcement and perhaps even putting their safety at risk. This sounds risky.

In my experience it has never been the LEOs who are at risk, but those who find themselves on the receiving end of police violence for daring to call out the unjust and lopsided application of laws against those who can not afford to buy preferential treatment. If I hadn't seen so many of my friend's skulls cracked open, dragged through the streets by their feet, had pepper spray swabbed into their eyes, or had their families and child custody threatened for daring to speak against injustice then I might feel differently. It is never the cops who are at risk in civil disobedience, but always those who are speaking out. I think it is very telling that there is currently a justice department investigation against the police department in my city for the brutal silencing of dissent during protests, the extreme amount of violence used against people of color, gender non-conforming people, and the homeless, and the exceedingly high murder rate by police officers. At a time when schools are being closed due to lack of funding, lawsuits resulting from police violence are placing an even greater strain on already scant resource. The answer isn't for us as activists to stop peacefully putting ourselves on the line, but for police to stop resorting to violence as their first response.
"By seeking to free others we find the strength to free ourselves."
  •  

Lesley_Roberta

It's a small thing, but it DOES matter, I always go out of my way to be pleasant to the person at the schlock jobs I encounter.

Be it cashier, waitress, whatever.

We all know the jobs are not great, and they know the pay is not great, and they don't really have any right to expect you to bail them out with tips, but, you CAN at least be pleasant enough that you might send them home at the end of the shift thinking the day was ok.

I don't tip staff at restaurants, I can't afford to. I'm poor too eh, and just going out to dinner is likely a bad idea to start with. But if my meal was good and the service friendly and decent, I will call over her boss and TELL HIM she and the meal were good use of my funds.

And I have in one case came to the rescue of a put upon cashier that was the target of a rude prick that was claiming she was rude to him. After a couple of moments of listening to it, I ripped into him and told him the only rude person was him, she as in no way anything he said of her and I said it very loudly so the whole store could her me chewing him out.
Staff don't get the pleasure of defending themselves generally speaking. Me on the other hand, I don't think I will be risking shopping at a store for defending a member of the staff from some self important jerk that thinks just because they are a customer, they have magical worth.

The customer isn't always right, in a lot of cases the customer is a bloody moron.
Well being TG is no treat, but becoming separated has sure caused me more trouble that being TG ever will be. So if I post, consider it me trying to distract myself from being lonely, not my needing to discuss being TG. I don't want to be separated a lot more than not wanting to be male looking.
  •  

Sara Thomas

Quote from: Lesley_Roberta on March 24, 2013, 09:48:17 PM
It's a small thing, but it DOES matter, I always go out of my way to be pleasant to the person at the schlock jobs I encounter.


I don't think it's a small thing at all! A little niceness would do more to improve this world than all the money or bombs you can shake a stick at.
I ain't scared... I just don't want to mess up my hair.
  •