I had an interesting day. The family were coming around for hot cross buns, easter eggs and tea and coffee etc. Most of the family know me and there are no problems. But I realised a brother in law was coming who I haven't seen for 18 months, and the mother of my sister in law who I hadn't seen in years.
I wasn't in the least concerned I was just interested.
Mike, my brother in law is separated so that is why I hadn't seen him. He was fine, had heard about me and didn't have a clue in how to address me or refer to me. He tried to shake my hand in greeting, so I kissed him on the cheek and he was taken aback. He was obviously feeling uncomfortable but I don't think he knew why.
I was BTW looking pretty hot in tight jeans knee high boots with 3 inch heels a low cut blouse and nicely made up. Since he had last seen me my hair has changed, my boobs have leapt, my face is clear and I'm totally FT. He is a mad keen car enthusiast so he was taken with my little sports car but struggled with the number plates. He just seemed confused! Quite funny! I kissed him goodbye as well just to help his confusion along.
My sister in law Mum is mid 80's and was very taken with me, she couldn't get a pronoun correct to save her life but I really don't think it was deliberate. My wife was also present and that confused her more as my wife is totally disabled and I have to feed and care for her. So she had problems in trying to understand our relationship, probably nothing she is used too.
All in all a fun day.