Howdy everyone, been lurking a bit, and wanted to introduce myself. I'm a cis female, have been out to friends and family as a lesbian for about 5 years now, although deep down I've always considered myself to be bisexual (I say bisexual because I never thought I could be with a trans. Nothing against them, just couldn't see myself doing it. I guess pansexual would be more accurate now?). My wife and I just got married March 23, on our third anniversary♥. We are solid as a couple, we tell each other absolutely everything, she is literally my best friend, confidant, missing puzzle piece, etc. We complement each other beyond perfectly. I believe in soulmates only because of meeting her.
Recently, she's been seriously considering transitioning FTM. Its a topic that's been brought up briefly here and there over the years, but she would always say that she didn't know what she wanted. Maybe the wedding changed things, made her feel more secure in the relationship, idk, but now its been discussed quite a bit. She says she's always seen herself as a masculine being, and loves to wear her harness and penis out in public on occasion. We just ordered her a packy to further experiment with, as the dildo she's been using can get a bit uncomfortable (like standing at attention 24/7 for a guy, its hard to just tuck it in and go about your day). We've been discussing HRT and SRS a lot lately, and while she wouldn't mind giving T a shot, she has no interest in SRS since she would not have a fully functional reproductive organ. I've tried my best to make it clear that I am not going anywhere no matter what she decides, I love and adore her either way, but I think there is still that fear in the back of her mind, and understandably so. (For the record, she joined today as well, though to my knowledge she hasn't posted anything yet. We've both been lurking today lol)
Anyway, there's not really a point or question to all this other than to introduce myself and give a bit of background. I look forward to getting to know some people in similar situations and finding answers to questions we both have as well!
