Do you feel empty without a man in your life?

[FrancisAnn]

For myself I love being a woman as complete as possible. It just feels so normal & natural.

However I've always felt more complete when a man is in my life. A man that asks me out on a date. A man that brings flowers. A man that desires me & a man that I can hold & satisfy.

It just feels so normal to be with a real man & I wonder how you other girlfriends feel about men & dating & maybe a good sexual relationship with a man?

[Denjin]

It depends if one is straight or not I think. I am bi and don't feel complete only if a man is about; however, having someone around who does love me is important.

[FrancisAnn]

Let me try & clarify. I'm a MTF TS pre op. I've always loved to be with a strong hetrosexual man. A man that only wants to deliver him self into a woman.

I just wonder how many other MTF TS pre op or post op also strongly desire a hetrosexual type man in their lives?

My desire is to become a post op woman & just have a normal male/female sexual relationship.   

[Kelly-087]

I'm bi-sexual~

But in most cases I'll probably lean towards womens.

I'm actually interested in trying to date a MTF like myself, probably pre/non-op.

It seems like it'd work out.

[Aleah]

I feel the same way FrancisAnn, I just want to be with a fairly typical male and it's often been the trigger for my dysphoria and still is.. I just want that traditional relationship, marriage, kids, all that stuff.

I don't think it's really all that sexual either, like I am very attracted to men but the desire to be in a relationship with a man is a social and emotional need and for me, very strongly linked to my gender identity since it's something I've wanted for so long.

[FrancisAnn]

Aleah, I'm so glad you feel the same way. I'm proud to need to become a 100% woman with hopefully a sufficient depth vagina to enjoy a real man. I've always enjoyed a man inside my body. It just feels great to me & always has.

It would have been so great a gift to have been born a natural woman. To have a child inside & to deliver & nuture the child to help it grow. To be a mother. How great that would have been!!!!

I hope we sisters can become friends, maybe good friends in our search for life & happieness.   

Your sister with much love, 

Francis

[Mohini]

I have a man in my life, and it really isn't what you think it may be; every rose has its thorn, unless it's artificially shorn. 

Anyways, I love my man, but all relationships aren't perfect. Just enjoy life, have fun, date away, and there will always be men out there for the rest of us straight chicks! 

[FrancisAnn]

Sita, you are a lucky girl, please have a great day. I wish I had been born a "straight chick".

Men. I know, you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince. Good luck with your man.

[Tristan]

I know I do. When I'm not with my man I feel so alone. He's like the most important thing in my life. The best way to put it is Edward and Bella,

[suzifrommd]

I feel empty without a partner. My pending divorce is really doing a number on my peace of mind.

I'd like to date, but it's early in my transition. I'm not really sure which gender I'm going to want to date.

[Cassandra Hyacinth]

I know I do. When I'm not with my man I feel so alone. He's like the most important thing in my life. The best way to put it is Edward and Bella,

But their relationship is so unhealthy... 

And I don't feel the slightest bit empty without a man - in fact, I'd feel much emptier if I did.

[big kim]

That would be nice to have a proper boyfriend but I'm 55 and I've left it too late

[couch tater]

While at times it would be nice, I don't really need one nor do I strongly desire one in my life. I've always leaned heavily to asexual and I've gone years upon years without dating, kissing or any of that silly stuff.

[Joanna Dark]

It's not that I feel empty without someone in my life (I could go either way: man or woman), it's that I feel having someone in my life would compliment it, or complete it (as mushy as that sounds lol). And there is of course sex, which I love. I consider myself a sexual being. So there's that. And I just like making out with people. But I haven't been with anyone in like two years :-(

[big kim]

I think I  'd like the companionship more than the sex life,

[Ms. OBrien CVT]

I am single and have no prospects on a mate.  I am living life as best I can.  Am I empty without a man in my life?  No.  While it would be nice to have a man, it is not something that is necessity to complete my life.

[Eveline]

Empty, no. Lonely - hell yes.

[ZoeM]

Empty, no. Lonely - hell yes.

Second that.
I've rather sworn off intimacy with people until I know what's right, but I still get lonely so much.

[Tristan]

Cassandra I make due with who I have. I don't understand why it's un healthy?

[V M]

I've been feeling rather empty, lonely and depressed lately but I don't know if it has much if anything to do with having a man or not    It would be nice to meet someone special who made my feel loved though