The problem for Donna is the society in which she lives is intensely competitive. In these situations, differences, even those which are otherwise attractive and striking, can simply become out of place.
Donna. At the risk of repeating myself, you are intelligent, mature, and strikingly attractive. But you will never learn how to best handle that to your own advantage until you get away from your current environment for a while.
I don't have any suggestions of where you might spend any time or what you might do, but I do strongly suggest you go somewhere that is not dominated by sino-Asians. India, Australia, some parts of Africa, W Europe, some parts of the US. Not the ME though.
The world as they say, is your oyster.
In the mean time, your contact with the outside world is through us. That is good for us, of course.