Second time you've posted about this so I think they're causing you undue worry.
I like stretched ears, I have stretched ears, and I'm stretching them to 5/8 and then stopping for a year or two. If you take them out you can always stretch back up if you change your mind. 2g is still small so they should shrink back in a few weeks. Might never go back to a standard piercing size but they will shrink a lot.
I've seen people in all walks of life and styles that have them. I guess I'm more casual. I'm always in cargos with a button down, polo, t shirt, or hoodie with a cap on.