Yes it is easy to talk about all the crap, but life is never all just the crap.
Some positives connected to my being female, but in a male form.
Firepower. Nothing quite says safe feeling like being able to at least exploit the fact I have a powerful body. Maybe I'd like to be more delicate, but at least alone on a dark street at night I am NOT someone's idea of a vulnerable lady.
Tough guy limitations, nope, not my problem. I have no need to go around constantly proving how tough I am. But I like that it is fairly easy to growl and be able to do it convincingly

Accessories. I must admit, I LIKE having a purse eh. There's a limit to what you can put in a pocket. It's nice though that some of the men's clothing I am stuck wearing does have decent pockets.
I like though not needing to fret over being moody, irrational, over reactive, whiny, and in general emotional.
Of course I'm acting like a woman you moron

I like being able to at least exploit the better aspects of a lot of cliche stereotypes to my advantage. My male friends have to be all male and act all male and suffer if they don't like it all for the love of being 100% male as seen by their peers. I don't. They can incorrectly think of me as male if they must, not like I can force them otherwise. But at least I don't need to care to live up to their stereotypes.
I like being able to listen to my chic music and watch my chic flicks and not need to fret over crying at the sappy parts.
It makes it so much easier to watch my girlie anime.