Hi Calico,
My need for pads has gone from Maxi Pads down to panty liners. And, with the heavier ones, the wings helped, but, now wouldn't think of using wings.
For a period of 3 weeks, I probably bought two different pads each week. It's been trial and error. One thing that I learned early was that most women's needs for a pad are different than mine, in that I needed to cover a much wider area than a woman would. It's probably true as well that I need a longer pad than most women. Unfortunately, the bigger sizes also have the bigger possibility of chafing along the thighs. I'm currently using Carefree Acti Fresh Body Shape, which are the best of about five different liners I've tried.
No matter what I've used, by the end of the day, I'm praying for a time when they're not needed at all...