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Started by kariann330, May 22, 2013, 11:14:49 PM

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kariann330

Ok so all i can say right now is ->-bleeped-<- Lauras Playground right now. I was banned from the site for repeatedly censoring myself as i have in this post....apparently it wasn't enough and was too PG13 and not enough G rated for them. Well my ban was lifted recently and i reset my avatar because it got deleted during the ban and now im catching sh*t from them about my avatar....i know im not perfect but neither are they and im about to just close out my account with the and not deal with there clicks and better then you complexes.

And just when i was FINALLY having a good day and the migraine i had for 3 days went away.

Thanks for any bit of comfort or support anyone can give and if i can figure out how to post a picture to a thread from a smartphone ill upload it to this thread so yall can see what they are throwing a b*tch fit over.
I need a hero to save me now, i need a hero to save my life, a hero will save me just in time!!

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A

Eh, go to IMGUR (it's a modern site; pretty sure they have a mobile version) and upload. Then click the image until you get to the pure image display. The URL will then end with the image file's extension, such as .jpg. Then copy the URL, and come to your post. Write this:
[img]

Then paste your URL. Then write this:
[/img]

Image posted.

And lol, I thought this site was sort of strict with the rules... don't wanna see it over there. Though if people have been saying they don't want you to do something there and you kept doing it again and again, maybe you did look for it...
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MaidofOrleans

I just stick with Susan's. Its the first support site I joined and the only. I can only blah blah blah on forums so much and frankly focusing on one is enough for me.
"For transpeople, using the right pronoun is NOT simply a 'political correctness' issue. It's core to the entire struggle transpeople go through. Using the wrong pronoun means 'I don't recognize you as who you are.' It means 'I think you're confused, delusional, or mentally I'll.'. It means 'you're not important enough for me to acknowledge your struggle.'"
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fatty

Quote from: A on May 23, 2013, 01:02:28 AM

And lol, I thought this site was sort of strict with the rules... don't wanna see it over there. Though if people have been saying they don't want you to do something there and you kept doing it again and again, maybe you did look for it...
Is this an attempt to stage a protest and/or dispute the site policies? :police: >:-)
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A

Uhm, no, just a neutral statement about strictness, which doesn't necessarily mean I'm against it or request it to change.
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Joanna Dark

This site is great, the absolute best. I never thought I could feel so close to people and connect with them on the internet. And I don't mind the site's rules at all. They are there for a reason. But mainly it's great to be a part of a community of trans men and women. I've felt so alone for so long and I never thought there would be so many trans women just like me. It's such a great feeling. Did i mention I love this site?! I can't wait to go to the Philly Trans Conference and maybe meet some of this site's members in person. Love it!
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Jamie D

Quote from: kariann330 on May 22, 2013, 11:14:49 PM
Ok so all i can say right now is ->-bleeped-<- Lauras Playground right now. I was banned from the site for repeatedly censoring myself as i have in this post....apparently it wasn't enough and was too PG13 and not enough G rated for them. Well my ban was lifted recently and i reset my avatar because it got deleted during the ban and now im catching sh*t from them about my avatar....i know im not perfect but neither are they and im about to just close out my account with the and not deal with there clicks and better then you complexes.

And just when i was FINALLY having a good day and the migraine i had for 3 days went away.

Thanks for any bit of comfort or support anyone can give and if i can figure out how to post a picture to a thread from a smartphone ill upload it to this thread so yall can see what they are throwing a b*tch fit over.

This?

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kariann330

Quote from: Jamie D on May 23, 2013, 04:37:05 AM
This?




YES!!! That just happens to be the picture that one of there mods are throwing a fit over.
I need a hero to save me now, i need a hero to save my life, a hero will save me just in time!!

"Don't bother running from a sniper, you will just die tired and sweaty"

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Anna++

Quote from: MaidofOrleans on May 23, 2013, 01:11:21 AM
I just stick with Susan's. Its the first support site I joined and the only. I can only blah blah blah on forums so much and frankly focusing on one is enough for me.

I'm the same way.  Susan's kept popping up in my Google search results when I started questioning myself, I'm more than slightly attached now :)
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Cindy

Honey,

No site is perfect.

But we work F*ing hard to make this one acceptable.

There is one thing you will get here and not at LPG, Mods who will talk to you.

Hugs

Cindy
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kariann330

Quote from: Cindy. on May 23, 2013, 08:56:48 AM
Honey,

No site is perfect.

But we work F*ing hard to make this one acceptable.

There is one thing you will get here and not at LPG, Mods who will talk to you.

Hugs

Cindy

You forgot one other thing.....a site that is open and excepting of new people instead of being one big clique that almost shuns and intimidates new people to the site.
I need a hero to save me now, i need a hero to save my life, a hero will save me just in time!!

"Don't bother running from a sniper, you will just die tired and sweaty"

Longest shot 2500yards, Savage 110BA 338 Lapua magnum, 15X scope, 10X magnifier. Bipod.
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kariann330

So just an update, i requested my picture and the request reviewed by a site administrator. When they asked to take it down i did and sent an email to the original mod saying "done....even tho i don't feel it is in any way in violation of anything"

Well the original mod said that because of my bad attitude my account is being restricted for a week....what a load of cr*p
I need a hero to save me now, i need a hero to save my life, a hero will save me just in time!!

"Don't bother running from a sniper, you will just die tired and sweaty"

Longest shot 2500yards, Savage 110BA 338 Lapua magnum, 15X scope, 10X magnifier. Bipod.
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Ltl89

I don't meant to put down Laura's Playground, as I love the fact that there are different venues for people to learn about transgender issues, but I was never impressed with the site.  While there is some good information, most of it is basic and delivered in the tone of an editorial.  Also, the myspace style of the site has always been very hard for me to get passed.  Still, I'm glad it's there.  Personally, I always found Susans, TS Roadmap and Lynn Conway's site to be the best source of information for trans issues.  I didn't even know there was a forum on Laura's playground. 
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A

Oh my &&$%. I just visited the website. I stayed three seconds. To give you an image... The Web design of Susans is very old, very '90s and very much against my tastes. But that THING... it's an abobination. They should add some #00FFFF and #FF00FF, and Comic sans, and kittens. Then they'd be the perfect stereotype of everything you must never do. They even have an animated GIF logo! Oh my god. Even when we had a comical project to especially design an ugly website in class, I didn't think of animated GIFs. Geniuses of ugliness!

Anyway, all that to say, the design I dislike a ton here... It's still at least a thousand times better. Seriously, people have been looking at that website and not crying blood? *Throws out a reddened tissue*

Sorry, this is highly irrelevant, but such a crime against humanity in aesthetic terms must be insulted. It's a moral obligation of any responsible citizen. And this is coming from a generally very respectful person.
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Assoluta

Quote from: kariann330 on May 22, 2013, 11:14:49 PM
Ok so all i can say right now is ->-bleeped-<- Lauras Playground right now. I was banned from the site for repeatedly censoring myself as i have in this post....apparently it wasn't enough and was too PG13 and not enough G rated for them. Well my ban was lifted recently and i reset my avatar because it got deleted during the ban and now im catching sh*t from them about my avatar....i know im not perfect but neither are they and im about to just close out my account with the and not deal with there clicks and better then you complexes.

And just when i was FINALLY having a good day and the migraine i had for 3 days went away.

Thanks for any bit of comfort or support anyone can give and if i can figure out how to post a picture to a thread from a smartphone ill upload it to this thread so yall can see what they are throwing a b*tch fit over.

Am I the only person who finds it hilariously ridiculous that somebody was banned for CENSORING themselves! Surely posting nude, sexual photos is a reason for being banned from most forums :O
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vegie271

Quote from: Jamie D on May 23, 2013, 04:37:05 AM
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Excuse me, I don't mean to be rude, and I know I am hijacking the thread, I can't see the picture and this has happened before, am I missing a driver on my computer?
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A

It comes from what is meant behind the censorship. If Laura's Playground says "->-bleeped-<-" is bad, then "f'ck" and "f**k" and other equivalents are probably not going to be any better. The way I understand the situation, it made the moderators think she was mocking the rules and using censorship to be "disrespectful". You know, like, how irritating it can get if you tell a child not to step past a line, and they lean their body as far as possible over the line, saying "I'm not stepping over it!" That might be what it is here. Or maybe simply that they have an unexplainable aversion for bad words. I'll never understand that. Like how in some shows they "beep" out bad words. You know full well what they said; you're just on top annoyed by that unnatural sound.

In their defense though I also do find "->-bleeped-<-" to be no less of a bad word than "->-bleeped-<-". If anything I prefer "->-bleeped-<-" because it's readable English and feels more honest and straightforward. I don't say much bad words because I feel they're disrespectful. But I dislike censorship very much because I think if you want to appear disrespectful, then you should be allowed to do so freely, as long as you don't step over the line of aggressing someone.

As a side note, has anyone else been severely annoyed by automatic censorship in games? Sheesh, they should understand already that it's humanly impossible to make a censorsip system that just works. No one can think of every possible variation of f0k and $|-|1t that people will come up with anyway.

Like how they decide that "damn" is suddenly a bad word of the same level as "->-bleeped-<-", and when you say "Damn you!" it comes out as "**** you!" leading to very frustrating misunderstandings. ("Damn you" is often playful, mild or sarcastic, while "->-bleeped-<- you", except in especially badmouthed people, is usually a very strong expression of annoyance.)

Funnily, in Dragon Nest, the engine is so stupid it'll take away "turd" (which I never knew was a word, much less a vulgar one!) from "sturdy", the game's name for Defense improving items, and "asses" from "classes". I've seen some bad things, like "douche" censored from a multi-language game even though in French it's "shower" ("I'm going to ******; see you later." - "Please don't tell me about your masturbatory habits."), as well as censoring "suck" (dunno about you, but to me, fellatios are pretty low on my list of possible meanings of "suck"), BUT not "sucks"... but Dragon Nest wins the award for censoring it's own game words.

vegie271: Haha, there is no computer in the world (or maybe there was in 1982) that needs a driver to display a picture, especially not when other images are visible~. Nah, either the poster messed the image embedding up, either the Susans mods thought it was inappropriate as well and removed it. I never saw it either.
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Devlyn

I think it's poor form to be badmouthing another support site on this support site. I've been to Laura's, they have trained suicide counselors, and a Veterans section, things we don't offer. There is good work being done there. This thread disappoints me. Hugs, Devlyn
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Ltl89

Quote from: Devlyn Marie on May 23, 2013, 08:00:14 PM
I think it's poor form to be badmouthing another support site on this support site. I've been to Laura's, they have trained suicide counselors, and a Veterans section, things we don't offer. There is good work being done there. This thread disappoints me. Hugs, Devlyn

That's a fair point.  To be honest, I never spent a decent amount of time there because of the sites design/style.  As a result, I'm sure I have missed some of the great aspects the site has to offer.  At the end of the day, we should be glad to have a wide variety of support sites on the internet.
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