I realize my username sounds kind of odd, but it's only because that's how my brain often has felt since I was very young. It switches from feeling male to female, my persona changing with each switch. I've come to find these two sides of me are who I am, and without one or the other, I'd be missing half my identiy. I can't live without one or the other. Then I found this site, and finally felt I could relate with some of you out there. My own mother doesn't know a thing about my bigenderness, and she wouldn't believe me. OFten I find being with other girls just doesn't work well for me. Too stereotypical and the general male population in my age range are just into sex and things I could care less about. Being bigendered only makes my female side less feminine and my male side quite male, but also able to adopt a few female-like traits. I've come to find being male doesn't mean being vilent, needing to swear a lot, into cars, or the sexy babes. AT least, not for me. WEll, you get the picture. I feel having both these sides has helped me have a slightly new slant on the world and people I interact with everyday. EVen my own family. Alright, enough said.