Ok, I'm new to the acting "like a woman" as I've always acted like a man! However, now that I am more or less being myself, I have found that my oldest sister and I act almost exactly the same. She does not follow all the "feminine rules" and neither do I. Isn't part of this transitioning just me being me? I'd address the feminine rules thing if I actually knew what they were. Given that I am not attracted to men and I actually don't even like most men, all I can figure out is to not run around alone as safety has become an issue. The rest is just me... Am I missing something?
My advice to Tristan would be for her just to be herself but to also be safe. Men are rather odd creatures sometimes..... Yea, there will be a mistake or two (or more) but that happens when you're young, not necessarily because your transgendered.