LOL, this argument was heated for a bit. I am glade that died down. Either way, who cares? Truly gentlemen, I imagine once we have all become who we want to be (I assert men) no one is going to take the time to out someone. Frankly gents, who the has time for that?
A mark of a gentlemen or a grown man is to not be messy. Is that not what we hope to teach our sons and direct our daughters towards?