The first option. Can you pee standing up with a vagina, with no STP? Nope. Every other (natal) female out there goes sitting down, as do I 100% of the time. That, and so I don't have to see that little bugger of depression when I go. Heck, for awhile, I used to wipe after I went too, regardless of bodily function, so I would have the mental reassurance that my area down there was right. Sigh, I can't wait until this question isn't an option one day.

Urinals are gross, too, I've hated those my whole life, ick. I went in one like once in my life, 9 years ago, or I would have missed the school bus to go back home that day. I felt so wrong doing it, too, it was like, "Errr, I know I have to go but, eww, this is wrong, think about something else. Get this done as soon as possible."
Edited for clarity, to add the word natal. Thanks for a good point below me, Jennifer!